I used to hesitate to travel extensively during my singleness. I thought I should wait until I was in a committed relationship before getting out and exploring the world. In all honesty, I was afraid of becoming too much, too well-traveled, too bold, too knowledgeable, for any man that might want to get to know…
Continue reading ➞ Why See the World? – Livin’ Single Series
I’ve been single, not counting situation-ships or other casual dating, most of my life. I’ve been single AND a Christian for a little over eight years. Most of what I’m discussing in this post is centered around my experience within the past eight years. My journey of surrendering my singleness and desire for marriage to…
Continue reading ➞ Single, Waiting and Tired – Livin’ Single Series
There are no words for what these past few weeks have been, except — a rollercoaster. It's been a social upheaval rollercoaster filled with wins and losses. An emotional rollercoaster as I grieved the senseless and unjust deaths of Black women and men, meanwhile, I celebrated the beauty of my heritage—being African, Nigerian, Afro-American. A…
It's the 'month of love'! I prefer to call it February. Love is always around us but during this time of year we hyper-fixate on love because of...Valentine's Day. Every day leading up to V-Day can sort of feel like D-Day. People who are dating or married might be expecting a grand gesture of love…
A Prodigal Love 